20 Questions To Ask a Boudoir Photographer

Here are my top questions to ask a boudoir photographer

When it comes to choosing a boudoir photographer, research is key.  For most women they’ve never booked a professional photographer before, and knowing what questions to ask a boudoir photographer can be a bit of a fog.

I'm here to help you understand the industry better so that you can make a decision that's right for YOU.

Most boudoir photographers are freelance or self employed and pretty much every photographer has their own:

  • Photography style
  • Pricing structure
  • Privacy standards
  • Way of working and
  • Studio set up
questions to ask a boudoir photographer
Tamsin Napier-MunnTamsin Napier-Munn
14:51 02 Feb 24
Amazing, brilliant, liberating! Beautiful images I’m proud of, taken by the super talented and insightful Alex Vince. If you want to truly feel special and create a memorable experience as well as something to remind you as a woman, how beautiful you are inside and out… meet Alex. Thank you Alex, your warmth and passion for what you do was palpable and inspired me to allow me to be me!
Certain FurballCertain Furball
13:33 02 Feb 24
I booked a photoshoot as a 40th birthday present to myself and I’m so glad I did. Alex put me at ease right away, the studio was warm and private and stripping off, I felt empowered! I’m so so happy with my photos, I look so sexy! If you’re toying with the idea go for it! Thank you Alex
Just had my 2nd shoot with Alex at FYEO and had an amazing time, Alex is fabulous at directing you into beautiful poses and helping to choose outfits. A very comfortable and relaxing environment that instantly makes you forget you are naked/semi naked. I would recommend this experience to anyone a real confidence booster with fantastic images to look back at for years to come. I cannot wait to get mine printed and on the wall
Janine CurtisJanine Curtis
18:15 10 Oct 23
Wonderful experience with Alex, she was so calm and welcoming, put me at ease immediately. Creative poses...felt like a good workout, i felt really confident in Alex and her choices. Beautiful pictures, im so pleased and feel really empowered and sexy! Cant thank you enough Alex xx
Cary Howe-JonesCary Howe-Jones
07:24 05 Oct 23
Another fabulous experience with the best boudoir photographer . Alexandra is so easy to work with, guides you effortlessly through the session and makes it fun. This was a second visit to her, 10 years on, and as a couple this time. Wonderful to revisit and the photos were superb. We had a fantastic time. Thank you so much.
MsJacamMsJacam
18:14 15 Sep 23
Alex, made me feel at ease right from the start.Before we started we discussed my expectations, went through my outfits and what would look best on camera, we worked at a good pace and I felt comfortable talking with Alex the whole time!Knowing we were the only people in the building help me to relax even more. The actual studio is large and has everything necessary for a professional photo shoot, make up room, lighting, props & I particularly liked the silver platform which looks amazing in the photos. Alex guided me to do the most flattering and seductive boudoir poses which complimented my body. Her creativity & years of experience is evident. I felt like a real model that day and I'm overwhelmed with my photos....Awesome experience!
Daniella AbrahamDaniella Abraham
17:34 18 May 23
This was an amazing experience, I highly recommend it. Alex made me feel so comfortable and confident, she took her time and worked at my pace to direct me into the poses. What an absolute pleasure to work with.Looking at my photos I was shocked, I couldn't believe it was me. I didn't know I could be sexy. I fell in love with myself.Ladies do not hesitate to do this. It seems scary at first but by the end you will feel like a supermodel.
It is with great pleasure that I write this testimonial for Alex, a talented female photographer who specializes in capturing the beauty and essence of women.Working with Alex was an incredible experience. She immediately put me at ease and made me feel comfortable in front of the camera. Her attention to detail was impressive, and her ability to capture my natural beauty and femininity was truly remarkable.As a woman, it was so refreshing to work with a photographer who understands and celebrates the beauty of the female form. Alex has a unique talent for bringing out the best in her subjects, and her photographs truly showcase the strength and power of women.Not only is Alex a skilled photographer, but she is also a kind and empathetic person who truly cares about her clients. She takes the time to get to know her subjects, to understand their vision and goals, and to create a customized photography experience that exceeds all expectations.I am so grateful to have had the opportunity to work with Alex and to have such beautiful, empowering photographs to cherish for a lifetime. I would highly recommend Alex to any woman who is looking for a photographer who will capture her beauty, strength, and spirit in a way that is both authentic and inspiring.Thank you Alex for a life changing experience!Daphne Diluce
Vladislav PetrovVladislav Petrov
09:48 08 Apr 23
Alexandra is amazing as a person and as a professional. Needless to say that she made my wife feel very comfortable and made the whole experience fun. The photos are on a WOW! level and we ended up struggling to choose photos as all of them were amazing.Just in one photoset my wife went through 6 different looks which was very exciting and left her with wanting more.The best part of this experience is not the photos that you will get (which would be enough on its own), but the confidence boost and newly found love and appreciation for your body.
Carrie WhiteCarrie White
18:52 15 Feb 23
I don't no where to start... absolutely amazing. When I first arrived I was so nervous and Alex made me feel so at ease from the start. I was shown exactly what to do.I'm really self conscious specially of my tummy but the photos were just incredible. I was so shocked and surprised i now loved how my body looked. If I'm having a day where I don't like my body I just look at my photos. Hubby loved them too we now have a canvas on our bedroom wall. I would definitely recommend to anyone to do a shoot with Alex it's a massive confidence boost and makes you feel amazing. Thanks Alex so much for making me get my confidence back and for making me feel amazing xxxx ❤️
Karen WillamsKaren Willams
19:53 04 Oct 22
Alex I must take a special moment to convey to you how grateful I am for the care and warmth you showed me from the start. I arrived at your Marlow studios with enormous trepidation as to what my 60th birthday present was letting myself into. My lovely husband facilitated this opportunity as a special birthday present with a weekend away just by ourselves. I’m a naturally shy person and not always the most confident about my body despite continuous praise and lovely comments from my husband and friends. So this photo shoot was a complete surprise and I was rather anxious about what it would feel like. I even said no way would you get me out of my bra!I can only say I had no need to worry. Alex met me with the warmest of smiles and completely put my mind and spirit at ease talking me through what we would be doing and how the day would go. Her makeup artist Sheridan was introduced and immediately her natural warm effervescence put me quickly at ease she soon got to know my whole life story and vice versa!Lean forward move the left arm upward, arch your back, head back , right arm back…..oh my what all at the same time??? Goodness this was such a wonderful fun workout I cannot begin to describe just how much. Time passed so quickly outfits changed and the buzz and positive affirmations just made me feel relaxed and at ease. So much to the point that my early claim that Alex would never get me to be naked flew right out the window in a way I cant begin to explain.Thank you so much for the experience….I love the outcomes……I want to share my photos with the world if only I dare!!! Even my daughter a natural born prude…..said …….’ Good grief mum ! You are HOT!!!’--
Tamsin Napier-MunnTamsin Napier-Munn
14:51 02 Feb 24
Amazing, brilliant, liberating! Beautiful images I’m proud of, taken by the super talented and insightful Alex Vince. If you want to truly feel special and create a memorable experience as well as something to remind you as a woman, how beautiful you are inside and out… meet Alex. Thank you Alex, your warmth and passion for what you do was palpable and inspired me to allow me to be me!
Certain FurballCertain Furball
13:33 02 Feb 24
I booked a photoshoot as a 40th birthday present to myself and I’m so glad I did. Alex put me at ease right away, the studio was warm and private and stripping off, I felt empowered! I’m so so happy with my photos, I look so sexy! If you’re toying with the idea go for it! Thank you Alex
Just had my 2nd shoot with Alex at FYEO and had an amazing time, Alex is fabulous at directing you into beautiful poses and helping to choose outfits. A very comfortable and relaxing environment that instantly makes you forget you are naked/semi naked. I would recommend this experience to anyone a real confidence booster with fantastic images to look back at for years to come. I cannot wait to get mine printed and on the wall
Janine CurtisJanine Curtis
18:15 10 Oct 23
Wonderful experience with Alex, she was so calm and welcoming, put me at ease immediately. Creative poses...felt like a good workout, i felt really confident in Alex and her choices. Beautiful pictures, im so pleased and feel really empowered and sexy! Cant thank you enough Alex xx
Cary Howe-JonesCary Howe-Jones
07:24 05 Oct 23
Another fabulous experience with the best boudoir photographer . Alexandra is so easy to work with, guides you effortlessly through the session and makes it fun. This was a second visit to her, 10 years on, and as a couple this time. Wonderful to revisit and the photos were superb. We had a fantastic time. Thank you so much.
MsJacamMsJacam
18:14 15 Sep 23
Alex, made me feel at ease right from the start.Before we started we discussed my expectations, went through my outfits and what would look best on camera, we worked at a good pace and I felt comfortable talking with Alex the whole time!Knowing we were the only people in the building help me to relax even more. The actual studio is large and has everything necessary for a professional photo shoot, make up room, lighting, props & I particularly liked the silver platform which looks amazing in the photos. Alex guided me to do the most flattering and seductive boudoir poses which complimented my body. Her creativity & years of experience is evident. I felt like a real model that day and I'm overwhelmed with my photos....Awesome experience!
Daniella AbrahamDaniella Abraham
17:34 18 May 23
This was an amazing experience, I highly recommend it. Alex made me feel so comfortable and confident, she took her time and worked at my pace to direct me into the poses. What an absolute pleasure to work with.Looking at my photos I was shocked, I couldn't believe it was me. I didn't know I could be sexy. I fell in love with myself.Ladies do not hesitate to do this. It seems scary at first but by the end you will feel like a supermodel.
It is with great pleasure that I write this testimonial for Alex, a talented female photographer who specializes in capturing the beauty and essence of women.Working with Alex was an incredible experience. She immediately put me at ease and made me feel comfortable in front of the camera. Her attention to detail was impressive, and her ability to capture my natural beauty and femininity was truly remarkable.As a woman, it was so refreshing to work with a photographer who understands and celebrates the beauty of the female form. Alex has a unique talent for bringing out the best in her subjects, and her photographs truly showcase the strength and power of women.Not only is Alex a skilled photographer, but she is also a kind and empathetic person who truly cares about her clients. She takes the time to get to know her subjects, to understand their vision and goals, and to create a customized photography experience that exceeds all expectations.I am so grateful to have had the opportunity to work with Alex and to have such beautiful, empowering photographs to cherish for a lifetime. I would highly recommend Alex to any woman who is looking for a photographer who will capture her beauty, strength, and spirit in a way that is both authentic and inspiring.Thank you Alex for a life changing experience!Daphne Diluce
Vladislav PetrovVladislav Petrov
09:48 08 Apr 23
Alexandra is amazing as a person and as a professional. Needless to say that she made my wife feel very comfortable and made the whole experience fun. The photos are on a WOW! level and we ended up struggling to choose photos as all of them were amazing.Just in one photoset my wife went through 6 different looks which was very exciting and left her with wanting more.The best part of this experience is not the photos that you will get (which would be enough on its own), but the confidence boost and newly found love and appreciation for your body.
Carrie WhiteCarrie White
18:52 15 Feb 23
I don't no where to start... absolutely amazing. When I first arrived I was so nervous and Alex made me feel so at ease from the start. I was shown exactly what to do.I'm really self conscious specially of my tummy but the photos were just incredible. I was so shocked and surprised i now loved how my body looked. If I'm having a day where I don't like my body I just look at my photos. Hubby loved them too we now have a canvas on our bedroom wall. I would definitely recommend to anyone to do a shoot with Alex it's a massive confidence boost and makes you feel amazing. Thanks Alex so much for making me get my confidence back and for making me feel amazing xxxx ❤️
Karen WillamsKaren Willams
19:53 04 Oct 22
Alex I must take a special moment to convey to you how grateful I am for the care and warmth you showed me from the start. I arrived at your Marlow studios with enormous trepidation as to what my 60th birthday present was letting myself into. My lovely husband facilitated this opportunity as a special birthday present with a weekend away just by ourselves. I’m a naturally shy person and not always the most confident about my body despite continuous praise and lovely comments from my husband and friends. So this photo shoot was a complete surprise and I was rather anxious about what it would feel like. I even said no way would you get me out of my bra!I can only say I had no need to worry. Alex met me with the warmest of smiles and completely put my mind and spirit at ease talking me through what we would be doing and how the day would go. Her makeup artist Sheridan was introduced and immediately her natural warm effervescence put me quickly at ease she soon got to know my whole life story and vice versa!Lean forward move the left arm upward, arch your back, head back , right arm back…..oh my what all at the same time??? Goodness this was such a wonderful fun workout I cannot begin to describe just how much. Time passed so quickly outfits changed and the buzz and positive affirmations just made me feel relaxed and at ease. So much to the point that my early claim that Alex would never get me to be naked flew right out the window in a way I cant begin to explain.Thank you so much for the experience….I love the outcomes……I want to share my photos with the world if only I dare!!! Even my daughter a natural born prude…..said …….’ Good grief mum ! You are HOT!!!’--
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Knowing the right questions to ask a boudoir photographer

Hi I'm boudoir photography expert Alexandra Vince. I've run my boudoir photography company FOR YOUR EYES ONLY PORTRAITS for 20 years and we've photographed over 20,000 women and appeared on the BBC.

 

I’m here to help you through the maze of different options for boudoir photography studios in the UK. I’ve written a list of useful questions that you can ask on your journey of selecting the perfect boudoir photographer for you. Let me be your guide! The questions will help you find a boudoir photographer you can trust with a style of photography that’s perfect for you.

 

Run through my list of useful questions to ask a boudoir photographer when you're doing your reseach... or book a no obligation 15 minute call with me to go through any questions.

20 Questions to ask a boudoir photographer

Dive into the world of boudoir photography with guidance from a pro! Here's a friendly guide on the top 20 questions to ask before you book your session:

1. Can you capture my vibe? Are you more about creating art, glam shots, sensual images, tasteful nudes, cozy bedroom scenes, or something totally unique?

2. What's the deal with your pricing? Does it cover the studio, the final images, and a touch of glam with professional makeup?

3. How much boudoir know-how do you have? Tell me about your experience in guiding clients through their poses.

4. What's your history with boudoir photography? If you're new to the scene, should your rates reflect that?

5. Who else will be in the studio? I'd love to know who's present during my shoot for my peace of mind.

6. Is boudoir your main gig? Do you focus solely on these types of sessions?

7. Can you walk me through the whole boudoir experience? I want to imagine how my session will go, from start to finish.

8. Why should I pick you? What makes your service stand out? I'd love to hear about what makes your studio experience confidence-boosting and unique.

9. Where's the magic happen? Do you shoot in a private studio, a hotel, at your place, or should I expect you at mine?

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10. Will you guide me into poses? I'd like an example of how you instruct during a shoot.

11. What's the wardrobe situation? What should I pack to look fabulous?

12. Where's your studio, and is it a private space?

13. Is retouching part of the package?

14. Can I get my hands on the digital copies?

15. How do you handle my images? I'd prefer they're stored safely and then deleted locally.

16. Do you mind if I bring a friend?

17. Do you share my images on your Instagram, Facebook, or website?

18. After our session, who holds the copyright to the photos?

19. Can I peek at your latest client feedback?

20. When will I get to see my edited photos post-session?

And a bonus one! How far out do I need to book you, especially if I'm timing it for a special day?

Top 3 questions

  1. Are you the person who will be photographing me? (Make sure to find this out and If possible speak with your photographer on the phone before the shoot. It will help you to relax before your shoot and on the day.)
  2. How many boudoir sessions have you shot? (Ideally you want someone who knows what they’re doing - the main thing here is their experience in directing.)
  3. How long have you been a boudoir photographer? (It doesn’t matter how long they’ve been shooting boudoir, but this should be reflected in their price, the less experienced should be cheaper.)
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4./ Is boudoir photography all you do? / Do you specialise in boudoir sessions? (A lot of photographers have started to add on boudoir photography to their 'general photography' portfolio, i.e. they also shoot families, business head shots, pets etc — which is a sign they’re not an expert in boudoir photoshoots. You deserve an expert, not a jack of all trades.)

5./ Can you describe your boudoir studio experience from start to finish? (This is important so that you can visualise what’s going to happen. It’s also important because it may highlight areas that affect your comfort during the shoot, especially if you’re nervous.)

5./ Who is in the room when I’m being photographed? (In my experience it’s best when you are alone with a female photographer. A friend or chaperone can make you focus your attention on them, which will affect your studio experience and the resulting photos.)

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6./ Is boudoir photography all you do? / Do you specialise in boudoir sessions? (A lot of photographers have started to add on boudoir photography to their 'general photography' portfolio, i.e. they also shoot families, business head shots, pets etc — which is a sign they’re not an expert in boudoir photoshoots. You deserve an expert, not a jack of all trades.)

7./ Can you describe your boudoir studio experience from start to finish? (This is important so that you can visualise what’s going to happen. It’s also important because it may highlight areas that affect your comfort during the shoot, especially if you’re nervous.)

8./ Who is in the room when I’m being photographed? (In my experience it’s best when you are alone with a female photographer. A friend or chaperone can make you focus your attention on them, which will affect your studio experience and the resulting photos.)

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9./ Why do women choose you over other photographers, what is your unique selling point? (For example, my unique selling point extends past my artistic photographic style — it’s also the trusted confidence boosting studio experience I offer women, (as seen on BBC),  my skin smoothing flattering studio lighting, my vast knowledge of directing women into flattering studio poses, and the guaranteed all female private and confidential service. In short, my USP is the empowering photographic experience, and my reputation as leading boudoir photographer in the UK, and my trusted confidential service.)

10./ Will you direct me into all the poses?

11./ What should I bring to wear?

12./ Where is your studio located, is it private?

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13./ Can I see your price list?

14./ Do you sell the digital images?

15./ Is airbrushing included in the price?

16./ What happened to my photographs after my shoot?

17./ Who airbrushes my pictures?

18./ Do you use a large lab to print my pictures or are you printing them yourself?

19./ Can I bring a friend?

20./ Do you use my pictures on your Instagram Facebook or on your Website?

21./ Who owns the copyright to my pictures after the shoot?

22./ Which category describes your style of boudoir photography best? —  1./ artistic 2./ glamour 3./ pornographic 4./ sexy 5./ tasteful nude 6./ modern lingerie. 7./ classy

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Boudoir photography expert Alexandra Vince

My ethos is to have fun and love your body.

 

Over the years, I've worked with lots of women who have lost their sense of femininity. I help them by showing them it's ok to be whatever shape they are with my photographic portraits. I give them that fresh persepective they need to see their body in a more positive light.

Over the last 20 years  of working full time in my industry I have seen how women can disconnect from their bodies, I help them by creating photographs that make them feel seen and loved.

My particular area of expertise is in my boudoir poses, which I have developed here in the FYEO studio with the help of over 20, 000 clients. I have trained photographers in the art of boudoir photography since 2005  - collectively our work has appeared on the BBC and been featured for the confidence boosting artistic photography which we consistently deliver clients from our comfortable boudoir studio setting.

About me

My name is Alexandra I am an expert boudoir photographer and I know all the secret questions to ask a boudoir photographer!

I pioneered boudoir photography for women back in 2002 and my boudoir photographers here at FYEO have now photographed over 20,000 women!!

I trained 20 female photographers to do the most amazing studio work and collectively we’ve photographed women of all ages, shapes and sizes.

Back when I started in 2002 there were no other boudoir photographers to compare to, or get inspiration from. So I was starting from scratch. The only photographers shooting naked women were glamour photographers. In the world of professional glamour photography the photographers were mostly male and their view of women was somewhat old fashioned, which I can’t stand!!

My difference

Women in the photographs taken by glamour photographers were submissive or overtly sexual in a cheap way. You know the kind of look I’m talking about. I wanted to create portraits for real women, of any age and size which were classy AND sexy in an empowering way. I created a studio system designed to make women feel gorgeous. And it worked… one of my clients worked for the BBC - she loved her experience so much that the BBC came to interview and film me and a few of my willing clients for a documentary!
I quickly came to realise that it wasn’t only the finished artistic photographs which were important to my customers, it was the studio experience itself…
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  • guidance
  • trust
  • self discovery
  • a safe private studio with no interruptions or violation of privacy.

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Inside the UK: 07826 151410
Outside the UK: 0044 1494 881 881

“Hello! I’m here to help you with any questions you may have about my amazing body-sculpting, skin smoothing boudoir photo shoot experience. Please fill out the form opposite and I will respond when I am at my desk. Talk to you soon…”

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Why choose FYEO Portraits?

  • The FYEO® Studio Guarantee — you'll be one to one with a female boudoir photographer in a private studio, you'll be fully directed into beautiful photographic poses which are guaranteed to flatter your body.

  • Our promise of confidentiality is guaranteed by our all female team — your pictures are airbrushed exclusively by the FYEO® Girls.

  • The FYEO® boudoir studio experience offers you a unique body sculpting boudoir photo shoot, only available from the trademarked FYEO® studios. Each studio features the FYEO® body sculpting platform, professional boudoir lighting and glamorous wind tunnel for your hair.

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At FYEO Boudoir we'll get the very best out of your body shape, we promise. You won't believe how amazing you'll look. That's guaranteed, or we'll shoot you again.

See You soon.
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